Yesterday I was angry with my daughter may be because of some reason. She is 3 years old. So she will not understand that I m angry with her. For something she was calling me and I didn't payed any attention to her and showed that I am busy. She came to me searching me and told me whatever she wanted to tell.
Then after some time I heard conversation between my daughter and her grandma. My daughter was telling her grandma that she was searching for her mother and could not find. She called upon mummy but mommy didn't answered. Then she found her mummy (me) busy. So she said my mummy was busy so she was not answering to me.
I felt very bad. I was pretending to be busy and that innocent girl was too away from all these human natures. From this I learnt that we should not jump to any conclusion from someone's behaviour. There might be any reason behind his or her behaviour. So, be innocent and many of your problems will be resolved automatically. Many times we only increase our problems by thinking so much on anyone's behaviour or comment. And later we come to know the real reason and then we feel where we were thinking..... Not good. And we repent.
So I feel innocence can actually keep you happy as kids are. So be innocent. Be happy. Stay happy.
Arundhati
Then after some time I heard conversation between my daughter and her grandma. My daughter was telling her grandma that she was searching for her mother and could not find. She called upon mummy but mommy didn't answered. Then she found her mummy (me) busy. So she said my mummy was busy so she was not answering to me.
I felt very bad. I was pretending to be busy and that innocent girl was too away from all these human natures. From this I learnt that we should not jump to any conclusion from someone's behaviour. There might be any reason behind his or her behaviour. So, be innocent and many of your problems will be resolved automatically. Many times we only increase our problems by thinking so much on anyone's behaviour or comment. And later we come to know the real reason and then we feel where we were thinking..... Not good. And we repent.
So I feel innocence can actually keep you happy as kids are. So be innocent. Be happy. Stay happy.
Arundhati
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