Forgetfullness: A Blessing

Many a times we argue, fight with so many people and we tell them we will never forget this. And we keep in mind those things forever. for whole of our life.
Now the another and very useful perspective towards it.
Daily we clean our home. Daily  we clean ourselves. Then why don't we clean our mind??????
If we keep these types of things in our mind or bad memories then it is like a garbage in our mind. it will only give bad feel, sorrow and unhappiness. So, daily clean your mind. That means forget these types of incidences those trouble you. Forget bad memories. Forgive people. And make your life happy. Its not for them, but its for yourself.
 So forgetfulness is a blessing for you........












Arundhati

No expectations in any relation

Few years back, I used to become very upset when other people didn't behave as my expectation. But unfortunate part in this is those people are happy and not at all aware that they are hurting someone.
Then I thought about one quote. It says don't allow anyone to hurt you. It's in your hands to get hurt or not. Then I was really happy to get meaning of this.
Don't give right to other people to govern your happiness. Your happiness is in your hands. So first thing don't expect anything from any relation and other thing is don't allow other people to hurt you. Be happy. Stay happy.






Arundhati