Attitude

If we say that attitude drives your life, then it won't be wrong. Because impact of each incidence in life depends on your attitude, how you take it.
If you tell yourself 'I can do it' surely you will be able to do it. Instead every time if you think like it's difficult and I won't be able to it,  even if you have the capacity to do it you will not be able to do it.
All depends on attitude. Taking every incidence, every move positively will give you success.
Your positive approach is nothing but the fire which keeps you ignited. Whatever happens don't change your positive approach. If you move forward with positive approach success will follow you.
Life is very beautiful. Live it. Enjoy it with full enthusiasm and positivity.







Arundhati

Forgetfullness: A Blessing

Many a times we argue, fight with so many people and we tell them we will never forget this. And we keep in mind those things forever. for whole of our life.
Now the another and very useful perspective towards it.
Daily we clean our home. Daily  we clean ourselves. Then why don't we clean our mind??????
If we keep these types of things in our mind or bad memories then it is like a garbage in our mind. it will only give bad feel, sorrow and unhappiness. So, daily clean your mind. That means forget these types of incidences those trouble you. Forget bad memories. Forgive people. And make your life happy. Its not for them, but its for yourself.
 So forgetfulness is a blessing for you........












Arundhati

No expectations in any relation

Few years back, I used to become very upset when other people didn't behave as my expectation. But unfortunate part in this is those people are happy and not at all aware that they are hurting someone.
Then I thought about one quote. It says don't allow anyone to hurt you. It's in your hands to get hurt or not. Then I was really happy to get meaning of this.
Don't give right to other people to govern your happiness. Your happiness is in your hands. So first thing don't expect anything from any relation and other thing is don't allow other people to hurt you. Be happy. Stay happy.






Arundhati

Innocence will keep you happy

Yesterday I was angry with my daughter may be because of some reason. She is 3 years old. So she will not understand that I m angry with her. For something she was calling me and I didn't payed any attention to her and showed that I am busy. She came to me searching me and told me whatever she wanted to tell.
Then after some time I heard conversation between my daughter and her grandma. My daughter was telling her grandma that she was searching for her mother and could not find. She called upon mummy but mommy didn't answered. Then she found her mummy (me) busy. So she said my mummy was busy so she was not answering to me.

I felt very bad.  I was pretending to be busy and that innocent girl was too away from all these human natures. From this I learnt that we should not jump to any conclusion from someone's behaviour. There might be any reason behind his or her behaviour. So, be innocent and many of your problems will be resolved automatically. Many times we only increase our problems by thinking so much on anyone's behaviour or comment. And later we come to know the real reason and then we feel where we were thinking..... Not good. And we repent.

So I feel  innocence can actually keep you happy as kids are. So be innocent. Be happy. Stay happy.




Arundhati

Fact

If others are happy with you, then you have done many compromises in life for them. And if you are happy then others have compromised.
You can not make everyone happy. You have to think what is the demand of situation. Many a times it is better to compromise in ours life than to convince others. But not every time. You need to prioritise for which things you can compromise. If to avoid confrontation you choose to surrender or compromise every time then your identity is lost. It's gone. You have to fight for yourself. You have to have your own identity. But fighting for a very small reason and just to prove your point can spoil a relation. So balancing between relations and your own demands is very important. If you do it successfully you are also happy and others are also happy with you.




Arundhati